My kid was so afraid of bees that he would run into the sreet to avoid one This is what I did
Sat him at a table out side,Places things that would attract bees on that table (strong colored objects, spilled juice,etc.) forced him to keep both arms on the table while the bees came Yes he shook with fear but once his own mind became sure that bees are not out there to hurt him He calmed down and has never been afraid since YOU HAVE TO PROVE IT TO THEIR MIND YOU CAN'T JUST TALK ABOUT IT THEY HAVE TO SEE IT