But Rozin,
Geveret Kapdanut is also an essential part of your ineer world, right?
Just like Adon Safek. So the desire to leave her hope so that you can enjoy the film in peace is just as unrealistic and just as destructive as the desire to get rid of Adon Safek.
So we're back in square one and you are stuck with both of them -
which means that they were not the problem to begin with - the problem is your automatic desire to ''enjoy'' the film.
Only if you stop asking yourself ''Am I enjoying this film?'' will the presence of these two inner forces cease to be a problem.
But to do that you have to give up your identity (that part in us that always tries to have a good life according to some image of what ''good'' is)
But you cannot give up your identity. Because any act you can perform, internally or externally, in order to ''lose your identity'' will be performed by that very identity in order, you guessed right, to make your life good and in accordance with some image of what a better life is (in this case, a life without the presence of the constant desire to have a good life).
So now we're again back to square one. Stuck with Adon Safek, Geveret Kapdanut and the ineliminable desire ''to have a good life'' which is the real source of the trouble we're having with the Adon and the Geveret and with our present life, as it is.
I guess maybe we need to stay in square one for a while, without trying to move away to any other, more advanced square.
Yeah, square one is just fine.
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